Sunday, May 06, 2007

maybe my shopping therapy is paying off

I had a neck and back massage yesterday, and was told I was "relaxed". It made me happy.

Then we talked about how for some people it's a compliment to be told they are tense.

Like a validation: they are working hard.

This is not a good thing.
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2 comments:

  1. Unknown1:24 PM

    That's so sad. I definitely think it's a compliment to be "relaxed"...if you are relaxed you are enjoying your life and living your life...not living to work hard and be tense. I would much rather work to live than live to work.

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  2. Lotta K10:07 PM

    Yes, I agree completely.

    Are you still taking classes at whatever gym you were going to?? (Years ago you did.) I want to start. I think the best way to make yourself relaxed is to make yourself tired!

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