that's power

So this was fun, a long lost friend found me on Myspace. We were friends when we were students in the mid 1980s, and we became friends when on the first day of class we found ourselves sitting next to each other in the back of the room.

When a couple of years ago the local police in my small friendly California town sent me to a day of traffic school (for an offense I didn't commit, I swear) the same thing happened. I sat in the back, looked around during the first hour, and had made friends by the second break.

I think of that when I try to catch the eye of the students in the back row at the first day of class in my own classes.

By the second class meeting I force them to sit in a circle.

thanks pat

Someone I know had put on his Facebook status line that 'misery is optional'. I googled and found the quote:

Pain is inevitable, but misery is optional. We cannot avoid pain, but we can avoid joy.
(Tim Hansel.)

I like that.

what I did get at world market

I know green tea and dark chocolate are hipper, but sometimes you just want your tea black and your chocolate goey.

would you buy a used car from these people?

Dan and I looked at furniture for our tiny backyard today. Adirondack chairs are popular. Similar styles are everywhere.

The ones at Cost Plus World Market came with instructions for care and maintenance.
Let's take another look at that, shall we?
So, both we and the store are in California. It's April. We are gearing up for seven months of non-stop sun.

thanks to jeanne

Here is a fun crafts project.

I still miss someone

just good

When I was 19 years old and lived in England for two semesters I developed the most perfectly pitched English accent.

When you are 19 and 20 it's important to fit in.

When I moved to the US 15 years later people didn't understand me until I had learned to sound like an American.

I liked it. I found that American English is more relaxed. You use different muscles of the mouth, and it just feels better. Also, when you speak British English you have to have the sentence ready in your head beforehand, and be able to deliver it in one go. It's supposed to flow. With American English you get time to think.

Nowadays I get nostalgic when I hear British English. I watch Judi Dench movies by myself, and even a vague Irish accent makes me like a person.

In the summer of 2000 I traveled to Sweden for my green card interview. I was nervous. To calm those nerves I had brought REM. I love the sound of Michael Stipe's voice. He has the perfect American tone, and he sings with perfect American ease. After my interview at the American Embassy in Stockholm I walked a mile in the wrong direction, listening to that.

on the today show, today

Joan Rivers just said that Los Angeles looks like a reunion of Schindler's List. That was funny.

yep, hillary is in montana

If those are turquoises, she's in a Western state.

I walked to safeway today, 10 minutes each way

Me - The US 1-0 (in overtime).

the cnn 'expert'

I just heard a talking head on CNN suggest that if you loose your job in the US due to your company relocating manufacturing 'overseas', you could consider moving overseas in order to keep your job.

Ever heard of immigration laws? Visas? You realize other countries have them too, and that it is as hard for an American to 'move overseas' as it is for a foreigner to obtain residency in the US?

lyrics by jens lekman

People seem to think a shy personality equals gifted,
but if they would get to know one
I am sure that idea would've shifted.
Most shy people I know are extremely boring.

Isn't that funny?
Maybe it's just me.

america

So I had the meatballs in the IKEA restaurant yesterday. As can be expected, the restaurant has a Swedish set-up: An efficient counter where you get a tray, silverware, and choose your food. If your choice is a hot dish, the plate is handed to you across the counter. Cold plates are displayed in cold cases, and you just pick one.

You pay, and take your tray to a table.

When you are finished, you put your tray on racks that can be wheeled into the kitchen where everything will be washed.

And this is where Sweden ends, and America begins: In Sweden you would put your tray in the rack yourself. There would be rules for you to follow, like putting paper napkins in a trashcan on the side, or scraping your plate and dispose of whatever food you didn't finish in a bin. Everybody would do this. If you didn't, you would get dirty looks from fellow eaters.

In America, you approach the racks, prepare to slide your tray in, and discover that on the other side of the rack a young woman is waiting. It's her job to receive your tray. She will take your paper napkin off and trash it, and, I am sure, even though I didn't wait around to check this, scrape your plate.

The station with the racks sits in the middle of the restaurant. The girl stands there and waits between customers.

Yes, it's an extra level of service. It's to make sure the scraping gets done and the leftovers won't dry on the plates, as Americans aren't trained scrapers like the Swedes.

And, it's another mind numbing minimum wage job.

dr king's last speech, april 3, 1968

Martin Luther King Jr and Malcolm X were both killed the year they would have turned 40. Dr King was shot in Memphis on April 4, 1968. Had he lived, he would still not have been 80 years old.

bronx students discuss obama's race speech

I don't know anything anymore, and it's pathetic: I need my american students to tell me about new swedish music

didn't I see a sign that said 15 meatballs, $4.99?

bosnia, hillary, and the snipers, again

Someone I know posted this article on Facebook. I don't know where to start. Just read it already.

dear whoever sends me spam in french

This is such a waste of time and precious megabytes.

"it feels much better being an unemployed musician than an unemployed pipe-fitter"

The Commitments. Irish soul. Bodil reminded me.